Elderly, sick parents a responsibility. So much love, so much work, so much worry. Young adult children. So much love, so much frustration, so much joy, so little influence, so much need from us none the less. There are days, moments sometimes when all these things come crashing upon me. I know I'm not alone... my friends feel it all the time just as much as I. So I ask, are we crazy or martyrs? Do we need this, do we want it, do we even crave the responsibility. I know no other way.